My programmes are a catalyst for Transgender people to 'Step into a Great Place in The World' which is fantastic if you are ready to reach your full potential right now. It's pretty scary to take the steps you want to take without knowing what the future holds. Once you have made the first move to talk to someone it will feel that there is no going back. How can you begin to take those first steps without closing the way back to a place where no-one knows your secret or who you are?
That's simple. I have set up all my business processes so that you can do business with me without anyone ( including myself) knowing who you are. Unlike most businesses I don't ask for contact details before you can access my services. You would need an email address, unless you prefer telephone contact, but this email address can be under a pseudo name if you wish. If you want to join the gymn you don't even need an email address - just a pseudo name and password and these details are not held on file by either myself or my internet provider so what could you possibly lose by calling into My Diversity Coaching Gymn to say hello?
How Cool is that?
Lynne Paris
Diversity Coach
www.my-diversity-coaching-gymn.net
Free Gymn Sessions ' Steeping into a Great Place in the World' on the last Tuesday of every month at 21.00 pm (UK time)
Tuesday, March 27, 2007
Saturday, March 3, 2007
Changing The Goal Posts
When I was a child I knew that if my parents promised something that it would happen. This meant that I developed an integrity system grounded in reliability which meant that my word is my bond and once I have made a commitment I do my best to keep my promises . What my parents failed to explain is that sadly I would be faced with many situations in my work and personal life where people would not think twice about changing their minds or letting me down.
It has taken me some years to stop taking this personally and just to accept the situation as ‘ someone else’s stuff’ which is probably one of the most liberating personal developments that I have experienced. Not being attached to an outcome removes all manner of barriers to tackling tasks and ventures that hitherto I would have talked myself out of before I began due to fear of failure or rejection or making a fool of myself.
So why do I mention this now? Because the goal posts for a project have changed in more than one way and for the first time today I realised that I haven’t let someone else’s actions paralyse me and stop me progressing towards my goals. I took a deep breath and carried on planning in the full knowledge that there will be folk that criticise, speculate, sabotage and support me for a host of different reasons. That’s fine. Now that I am not personally attached to the outcome my energy is released and I am able to listen to my intuition and get out of my own way.
I am comfortable in putting myself out in the universe as authentically and simply as possible knowing that I will attract the people and circumstances into my life that are great for me – those that I can connect with on a respectful and uncomplicated level. I can’t find the words to explain what a great feeling it is to connect like this. My life feels full of peace and mostly quite joyous. I no longer feel afraid or isolated in the way that I once did.
Changing the goal posts is no longer a problem and doesn’t phase me anymore. It’s just another door opening. The ability to ‘ not be attached to the outcome’ is something that I love to work on with my clients. Together Everything Becomes Possible.
Lynne Paris
Diversity Coach
www.my-diversity-coaching-gymn.net
It has taken me some years to stop taking this personally and just to accept the situation as ‘ someone else’s stuff’ which is probably one of the most liberating personal developments that I have experienced. Not being attached to an outcome removes all manner of barriers to tackling tasks and ventures that hitherto I would have talked myself out of before I began due to fear of failure or rejection or making a fool of myself.
So why do I mention this now? Because the goal posts for a project have changed in more than one way and for the first time today I realised that I haven’t let someone else’s actions paralyse me and stop me progressing towards my goals. I took a deep breath and carried on planning in the full knowledge that there will be folk that criticise, speculate, sabotage and support me for a host of different reasons. That’s fine. Now that I am not personally attached to the outcome my energy is released and I am able to listen to my intuition and get out of my own way.
I am comfortable in putting myself out in the universe as authentically and simply as possible knowing that I will attract the people and circumstances into my life that are great for me – those that I can connect with on a respectful and uncomplicated level. I can’t find the words to explain what a great feeling it is to connect like this. My life feels full of peace and mostly quite joyous. I no longer feel afraid or isolated in the way that I once did.
Changing the goal posts is no longer a problem and doesn’t phase me anymore. It’s just another door opening. The ability to ‘ not be attached to the outcome’ is something that I love to work on with my clients. Together Everything Becomes Possible.
Lynne Paris
Diversity Coach
www.my-diversity-coaching-gymn.net
Tuesday, February 20, 2007
GENDER FEST -- DRAFT FLIER
PROBABLY THE WORLDS FIRST GENDER FEST
FOR TV AND TRANSGENDER PEOPLE WHO WANT TO ENJOY AN INTERESTING EVENING AND PICK UP SOME TIPS ON ENHANCING THEIR FEMININE SIDE. YOU ARE WELCOME TO BRING PARTNERS AT MUCH REDUCED COST
TICKETS SHORTLY AVAILABLE ONLINE www.my-diversity-coaching-gymn.net
FOR TV AND TRANSGENDER PEOPLE WHO WANT TO ENJOY AN INTERESTING EVENING AND PICK UP SOME TIPS ON ENHANCING THEIR FEMININE SIDE. YOU ARE WELCOME TO BRING PARTNERS AT MUCH REDUCED COST
TICKETS SHORTLY AVAILABLE ONLINE www.my-diversity-coaching-gymn.net
VENUE - SOUTH COAST UK (tbc)
APRIL 2007 - 7 PM ( date tbc)
KEY NOTE SPEAKER – tbc
MAKE UP DEMO
FASHION MAKEOVER
HAIR /WIG DEMO
LASER TALK
VOICE WORKSHOP
LIVE MUSIC
My Diversity Coaching Gymn
KEY NOTE SPEAKER – tbc
MAKE UP DEMO
FASHION MAKEOVER
HAIR /WIG DEMO
LASER TALK
VOICE WORKSHOP
LIVE MUSIC
My Diversity Coaching Gymn
Resources Board
Local Gender Friendly Business Table
Partners Vision Board
Health Displays
Hosted by Lynne Paris , Diversity Coach
http://www.my-diversity-coaching-gymn.net/
07795498733
Local Gender Friendly Business Table
Partners Vision Board
Health Displays
Hosted by Lynne Paris , Diversity Coach
http://www.my-diversity-coaching-gymn.net/
07795498733
Tuesday, February 13, 2007
POSSIBLY THE WORLD'S FIRST GENDER FEST
CALL TO ACTION -- BOOK YOUR TICKECTS FOR MY FIRST EVER GENDER FEST.
GENDER FEST is a pioneer event designed to break down barriers between Society and transgender people and to be a ‘Catalyst for Transgender People to find a Great Place in The World.’ It will provide a safe environment where people who want to understand more about transgender issues can learn and have fun in a relaxed informal manner. More details soon.
Why this? Why now?
Should Society fit the People or Should the People fit Society? This question is at the heart of the majority of my coaching. My philosophy is that Society should be a respectful place where people of all diverse natures co-exist. Sadly Society with it’s written and unwritten laws and prejudice falls short of this ideal. Europe strives to redress this balance through Human Rights and equality legislation and I seem to find myself at the cutting edge of the wave of reform. I have been described as a pioneer and to some extent this is true. I have the ability to connect to a future that doesn’t seem obvious to everyone.
I first became aware of vision 15 years ago during what I describe as the technological revolution in British Government. I imagined communication as people networked together and sharing resources via intranets and gave a talk to the IT group in a major government dept. Ten years ago I was the founder member of a Cultural Festival which still happens annually and has broken down the barriers between culturally different groups in a city. My programmes , for which I received an award , created a structure to re-engage young socially excluded people and integrate them back into society. My niche then was Special Needs such as dyslexia and ADHD.
Following this I was invited to coach The Cabinet Office Disability Working Group to change perceptions of Disabled People. The single most significant issue that is common to all these situations is FEAR. Fear of the unknown. Fear of the misunderstood. Fear of being discriminated against if you associate with people who don ‘t fit with societies perception of normal. I find myself drawn to working at the edge and using my creative ability create harmony between ‘normal society’ and people who don’t fit the mould ( if in fact any of us really do) This incredibly interesting life’s work has placed me at the door of the Transgender Society where I can feel the terror of intelligent gentle people struggling against all odds just to live in peace without the fear of discrimination and violence. My heart goes out to them and for that reason I have pledged to do what I am able to break down barriers for transgender people – of which there are many and develop programmes that are a Catalyst for Transgender People to Step into a Great Place in The World. I know that I will attract the people that I need to work collaboratively with me to achieve this. And , yes, I do feel scared by what I am doing but at the same time excited. If you would like to be involved I would love to hear from you – discretion guaranteed – at lynne.paris@my-diversity-coaching-gymn.net
Lynne Paris
GENDER FEST is a pioneer event designed to break down barriers between Society and transgender people and to be a ‘Catalyst for Transgender People to find a Great Place in The World.’ It will provide a safe environment where people who want to understand more about transgender issues can learn and have fun in a relaxed informal manner. More details soon.
Why this? Why now?
Should Society fit the People or Should the People fit Society? This question is at the heart of the majority of my coaching. My philosophy is that Society should be a respectful place where people of all diverse natures co-exist. Sadly Society with it’s written and unwritten laws and prejudice falls short of this ideal. Europe strives to redress this balance through Human Rights and equality legislation and I seem to find myself at the cutting edge of the wave of reform. I have been described as a pioneer and to some extent this is true. I have the ability to connect to a future that doesn’t seem obvious to everyone.
I first became aware of vision 15 years ago during what I describe as the technological revolution in British Government. I imagined communication as people networked together and sharing resources via intranets and gave a talk to the IT group in a major government dept. Ten years ago I was the founder member of a Cultural Festival which still happens annually and has broken down the barriers between culturally different groups in a city. My programmes , for which I received an award , created a structure to re-engage young socially excluded people and integrate them back into society. My niche then was Special Needs such as dyslexia and ADHD.
Following this I was invited to coach The Cabinet Office Disability Working Group to change perceptions of Disabled People. The single most significant issue that is common to all these situations is FEAR. Fear of the unknown. Fear of the misunderstood. Fear of being discriminated against if you associate with people who don ‘t fit with societies perception of normal. I find myself drawn to working at the edge and using my creative ability create harmony between ‘normal society’ and people who don’t fit the mould ( if in fact any of us really do) This incredibly interesting life’s work has placed me at the door of the Transgender Society where I can feel the terror of intelligent gentle people struggling against all odds just to live in peace without the fear of discrimination and violence. My heart goes out to them and for that reason I have pledged to do what I am able to break down barriers for transgender people – of which there are many and develop programmes that are a Catalyst for Transgender People to Step into a Great Place in The World. I know that I will attract the people that I need to work collaboratively with me to achieve this. And , yes, I do feel scared by what I am doing but at the same time excited. If you would like to be involved I would love to hear from you – discretion guaranteed – at lynne.paris@my-diversity-coaching-gymn.net
Lynne Paris
Friday, January 26, 2007
Together Everything is Possible
Hot off the press -- Must Have Publication for Transgender People who want to explain what living with gender dysphoria is really like. A brilliant read also for partners, family and employers of people with gender dysphoria.
I am a catalyst for transgender people to find their rightful place in the world - free coaching at site www.my-diversity-coaching-gymn.net
Coaching Exclusion
www.my-diversity-coaching-gymn.net
Coaching Exclusion
Life Coaching provides opportunities for academic establishments and local education authorities to tackle the thorny issues of pupils with special needs and challenging behaviour more effectively.
Surviving in the Real World
Newly Developed Educational Product
tackling practical issues for
Challenging Pupils
‘This product has been developed following practical research and work with a group of excluded teenagers over a seven year period All of the group have now fully integrated into society and are independent. Two of the group obtained Advanced Millenium Awards for Voluntary Sector activity.’
Challenging behaviour and bad communication cannot be compensated for by a good general education when you are ‘in the real world’. In the real world the ability to survive is significantly affected by how effectively you can communicate with officials in organisations that impact on everyday living resources – banks, inland revenue, doctors, dentists and how you manage relationships with bosses, staff and partners.
Pupils with challenging behaviour are often pupils who have not received appropriate coaching on how to behave in different situations in order to maximise their potential. Learning how the system works and how ‘fitting in’ can benefit you will transform situations and minimise contra indications to a better lifestyle.
A person centred holistic approach to independence which focuses more on interpersonal skills and how to challenge appropriately will ultimately enable pupils with difficult issues to integrate more effectively into schools and later into the wider community. This seems an infinitely more inviting prospect than excluding challenging pupils who may join the criminal ranks in order to survive, thus impacting on the lives of everyone in society.
For more details and fees contact
Lynne Paris
Diversity Coach
07795 498733
www.my-diversity-coaching-gymn.net
Please note that although gender dysphoria is a target market – I also have significant experience working with dyslexia and ADHD
Copywrite Lynne Paris January 2003
Coaching Exclusion
Life Coaching provides opportunities for academic establishments and local education authorities to tackle the thorny issues of pupils with special needs and challenging behaviour more effectively.
Surviving in the Real World
Newly Developed Educational Product
tackling practical issues for
Challenging Pupils
‘This product has been developed following practical research and work with a group of excluded teenagers over a seven year period All of the group have now fully integrated into society and are independent. Two of the group obtained Advanced Millenium Awards for Voluntary Sector activity.’
Challenging behaviour and bad communication cannot be compensated for by a good general education when you are ‘in the real world’. In the real world the ability to survive is significantly affected by how effectively you can communicate with officials in organisations that impact on everyday living resources – banks, inland revenue, doctors, dentists and how you manage relationships with bosses, staff and partners.
Pupils with challenging behaviour are often pupils who have not received appropriate coaching on how to behave in different situations in order to maximise their potential. Learning how the system works and how ‘fitting in’ can benefit you will transform situations and minimise contra indications to a better lifestyle.
A person centred holistic approach to independence which focuses more on interpersonal skills and how to challenge appropriately will ultimately enable pupils with difficult issues to integrate more effectively into schools and later into the wider community. This seems an infinitely more inviting prospect than excluding challenging pupils who may join the criminal ranks in order to survive, thus impacting on the lives of everyone in society.
For more details and fees contact
Lynne Paris
Diversity Coach
07795 498733
www.my-diversity-coaching-gymn.net
Please note that although gender dysphoria is a target market – I also have significant experience working with dyslexia and ADHD
Copywrite Lynne Paris January 2003
Friday, January 19, 2007
Free Coaching online at www.my-diversity-coaching-gymn.net
WELCOME TO MY DIVERSITY COACHING GYMN FOR COMPANIES. PEOPLE AND PARTNERS DEALING WITH IMPACT OF GENDER DYSPHORIA AND REASSIGNMENT
FREE ONLINE COACHING –LAST TUESDAY MONTH 20.30 UK TIME
TOPIC --'IF WORK'S NOT FUN THEN IT'S NOT WORKING'
BUY ONLINE–INSTANT DOWNLOAD -TRANSGENDER LETTER TO PARTNER
A ' MUST HAVE' PUBLICATION FOR ANY PERSON, PARTNER OR RELATIVE OR EMPLOYER SEEKING TO UNDERSTAND WHAT LIVING WITH GENDER DYSPHORIA IS REALLY LIKE -- TRUE STORY BY TIFFANY
tel 07795 498733 email lynne.paris@my-diversity-coaching-gymn.net
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