Don't you just hate it when well meaning people respond to your misfortunes with banal comments like -- think positive. Your world is falling apart and some fool thinks all the problems can be swept away with a pat on the shoulder and urging you to look on the bright side - there are times in my life when sinking a hatchet into certain peoples heads would have felt like the bright side -- good job I'm not a violent type.
As a lifecoach, I would see every situation good, or bad, as something that I have attracted. It takes courage to accept how this works in practice. Also, to look for the transition for yourself, in situations that are not what you want. Once you are able to tune into the flow that is your own unique energy , you can let go of everything that holds you back. Situations in your life are the signposts that tell you it's time to get moving. This might not always be what you want or what you expected. It might be frightening and feel quite lonely as you move towards your life transition. You may feel that you can ignore it but this would be wrong. Life has a way of presenting you with situations that are ever more critical until you eventually have no choice but to move forward and grow.
Procrastination may seem the safe option but actually just opens up more opportunities for stress, tension and unhappiness. What I have observed is that the results of the worst situations in my life have often been the most amazing, satisfying and lucrative. This has happened with such regularity that I am able to skip the ' Poor me' stage almost entirely and make a shift into ' 'What's in this for me?' Inevitably there is something for you in most situations. I can work with you to find it and to keep you on track until you get where you want to be. I love working with people in challenging situations , one of which is the transgender community and their partners and families. It takes one phone call, or email to make contact with me. If you are interested in big leaps in the face of adverse situations then I would love to hear from you. Remember - Together Everything Becomes Possible.
Lynne Paris
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